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Measuring Intent

We’re just now feeling our regular, joyful familial groove return from our time spent gorging on connection, freedom of mind and space, and the annual quintessential family reunion we call The Rethinking Everything Conference.  There are a great many ideas, situations, and conversations on which to reflect and I will continue to analyze [...]

HB #29- The Traveling Family

In anticipation of our upcoming sessions, Barb Lundgren of The Rethinking Everything Conference interviews Sarah and Chris Parent about living a mobile life!

 

Since our family took to the road in July of 2010, there has been an overwhelming response from old and new friends alike.  In this interview, we share some [...]

Go Ahead- Change your mind

We all want what’s best for our children, don’t we?  The answer is ‘yes‘.  Even parents whose short-term motives and tactics I question have the same long-term goal – healthy, well-adjusted, caring, ’successful’ adults (we can debate the qualities of this last one some other time). 

When we were transitioning our suburban life to one on [...]

Inspired Words

Coloring Outside the Lines

Some invest heavily
In wrong and right
As if the world
Were black and white
 
Suppose you took
The color away
There’d still be
Countless shades of gray
 
Countless opinions
And points of view
Countless thoughts
On which to chew
 
Should you find something
That works for you
You may want to assume
It will work for me too
 
But I am unique
In my view of the world
How [...]

HB #28- Guest Podcast:: Freedom & Responsibility with Barb Lundgren and Quinn Eaker

Quinn is Barb’s oldest child and a grown unschooler.  Having been unschooled in the deepest sense of the word, his sense of self is strong and his awareness is broad.  Discussions with Quinn are immediately intimate.  There is no small talk, no waste of a moment.  He truly lives the intention of being present in [...]

HB #27- Guest Podcast:: Freedom & Responsibility with Barb Lundgren and Courtney Taylor Clay

Several have asked me about unschooling teens.  Who better to speak to this than a young adult (now mother!) who, herself, was always (in all ways) unschooled?  I am pleased to have Courtney and her family in my personal experience.  Her presence is quiet and powerful.  She has much to share.

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Courtney is [...]

Rethinking Everything Conference 2010 is Upon Us!

Yes, it’s almost here!  Chris and I are once again thrilled to be a part of this amazing, life changing, growth experience so aptly renamed the Rethinking Everything Conference.  We are prepared to enlighten and be enlightened, connect, grow, challenge, be challenged, inspire, expand, and have TONS of fun!  I can [...]

HB#26- Guest Podcast:: Freedom & Responsibility with Barb Lundgren and Teresa Brett

Another great guest podcast especially for you! 

Barb Lundgren of the Rethinking Everything Conference and Rethinking Everything Magazine and Teresa Brett of Parenting for Social Change dissect the process of consciously moving forward in our parenting by addressing our personal blocks and challenges that hold us captive in struggle.

Topic:  The Spiral of Learning, Growth, Freedom and [...]

HB#25- Guest Podcast:: Freedom & Responsibility with Barb Lundgren and Yours Truly

How often do we slip into old paradigms of parenting/learning structure without even knowing it? It’s easy to fall back into traditional patterns with our children when situations become uncomfortable or we’re not getting the outcomes that we expect or desire?  In this conference call, Barb and I discuss the rationale for these missteps and [...]

HB #24- Guest Podcast:: Freedom & Responsibility with Barb Lundgren & Scott Noelle

I have a surprise for you!  In preparation for the Rethinking Everything Conference in September, Barb Lundgren is hosting a series of seven conference calls focusing on many different areas of concern for parents regarding Freedom and Responsibility.  I will be sharing them here with you. 

In this episode: Barb and Scott Noelle discuss how [...]

In Support of Nothing

My kids love to watch PBS.  Fetch with Ruff Ruffman and Cyberchase are two of their favorite shows.  And they learn alot from them.  I must admit, so do I!  For the most part, we find the minimal advertising that PBS presents innocuous.  There’s a newish ad that they are running that burns my kids [...]

Claiming My Voice on internet radio

I love to speak and enlighten about freedom and living in connection with and support of children. 

My good friend, founder of the Rethinking Everything Conference, and co-publisher of Rethinking Everything Magazine, Barb Lundgren, and I were recently interviewed on an internet radio program called, Claim Your Voice, Own Your Life.   Maggie Self of Children of Spirit  went [...]

Co-Creating with Teresa Brett

Listen to my interview with Teresa!

Recently, I had the rich experience of interviewing (conversing really) with Teresa Brett of Parenting for Social Change on Co-Creator Radio Network.  The interview is in preparation for Teresa’s speaking at the upcoming Rethinking Everything Conference about which I am so excited.  I have a previous connection with Teresa through [...]

Trust and Pixie Dust

“I am youth!  I am joy!  I am freedom!” sang Peter Pan, as he flew through the air across the stage avoiding Captain Hook’s grasp with each pass.

As I sat this morning in Casa Manana Children’s Theatre enjoying another spectacular play, I noted once again with interest how often undertones and flat-out overtones of [...]

HB #23- The Organic Life- Wagner Interview

Photo Credit: Sara Janssen

Join me for a live, in-person interview with Tara (The Organic Sister) and Justin (her deschooling/deworking husband) Wagner as we discuss their organic, intentional life as an unschooling, full-time RVing family living and working in freedom.

This is a must-listen!  Tara and Justin Wagner have taken many leaps in their [...]

Analyzing “No”

Have you ever thought about why you say the word, “no” to your children?  Parents are incredibly trigger happy and “no” is their bullet.  Sometimes “no” is disguised in a few other words or hidden entirely in a phrase that sounds different but, in the end, means “no” (e.g. – “not right now”). 

Children [...]

Unschooling- The Real Story

I recently came upon the Family Mental Health blog on PsychCentral.com about unschooling.  More specifically, the writer of the blog lived up to the initials following her name and questioned Good Morning America’s edited portrayal and highly biased discussion of the unschooling lifestyle.  She conveyed her gut reaction after viewing the piece and made a call [...]

Good Morning America- Featuring Unedited Unschoolers

Good Morning America responded quickly yesterday to emotional viewer reactions over their highly edited and opinionated segment on radical unschooling.  Christine Yablonski and Phil Biegler were flown to New York City to appear on this morning’s show to offer information about radical unschooling in conjunction with Pat Farenga - home- and unschooling expert.  They responded to a few [...]

Good Morning America- Sheds Uninformed Opinion on Unschooling

The Biegler/Yablonski family was featured on Good Morning America this morning hoping to shed some light on radical unschooling during mainstream America’s morning cuppa’ joe.  GMA quickly put a halt to any open discussion that might have been had in the MAINstream, however, by spewing their negative judgments and opinions before, during, and [...]

HB #21- Do You Strew?

Yes, we’re heading in the direction of our dreams!  House sale, inspection, appraisal, RV- yahoo!  What is YOUR normal life?!

Minka has moved on.  We are so appreciative to have had the years together.  Both her life and her transition through death were connecting and growing experiences for our family to share together.

New audio!  Yes, I am [...]

This IS the Real World.

Many people ask me how my children will function in the ‘real world’. 
Further questioning reveals a concern that, because unschoolers are not accustomed to having their time and activities regimented by an external authority, they will be unable to function in society as adults.

Unschoolers do not live in some kind of self-limiting bubble. Our [...]

Radical Parents Talk Back

Tune in tomorrow - Sunday, March 21st at 10 pm CST – 11 pm CST to hear myself, Elizabeth (AP mom), and Gina (gender neutral mom) on The Feminist Breeder & Friends Radio Show as we discuss our experiences with and reactions to our appearances on: Discovery Health Channel’s ‘Radical Parenting’.

This is a LIVE show so you’ll [...]

CPS- We're A-OK

There have been a smattering of blog comments in response to Discovery Health’s ‘Radical Parenting’ special indicating that Child Protective Services should be involved with our family.  Why?  From the perspective of an overbearing, traditionally-minded parent, the dynamic of our family is frighteningly lax.  It is immediately assumed that because our children are not FORCED [...]

Ageism in Unschooling

As a Registered Nurse for 12 years, I am very familiar with the phrase, “eating our young.”  In a Google search, I find all the references to this phrase to be in regards to nursing.  Sad… and curious because I know this is not the only group in which this pattern of behavior occurs- alienation, [...]

HB #20- Product and Process- 'Radical Parenting'- the special review

Join my husband, Chris, and I as we discuss and explain some recently blogged comments about our recently aired segment of: 

Discovery Health Channel’s ‘Radical Parenting’ special
3 Families- Attachment Parenting, gender neutral parenting & radical unschooling

General consensus is that Radical Unschooling is, by far, the most ‘radical’ of the styles.  Hmmm.

General opinions-
1) Interesting take; [...]

Radical Parenting

We gathered around the television this evening- the kids, Chris, myself, my mom, Barb, and Steve.  We waited with the television on mute while some horrifying dramatization of seizures was finishing.  The kids paid no mind- climbing on the couch and showing Barb and Steve their newest creations and talents.  There were flutters in [...]

Reminder- 'Radical Parenting' airs TONIGHT!

‘Radical Parenting’- a Discovery Health Channel special featuring three families depicting alternative styles of parenting- will air TONIGHT, Wednesday, March 3, 2010 at 8pm EST.

Tune in to see the Parent family and two others as we discuss radical unschooling, attachment parenting, elimination communication, and more!

This is the Discovery Health Baby Week [...]

HB #19- True Freedom

News
Discovery Health Channel’s ‘Radical Parenting’ featuring my family’s connected, passion driven life will air Wednesday, March 3rd at 8pm EST/7pm CST

Rethinking Everything Magazine
- has thought provoking interviews with our change agents up on the website
- is ready to release Issue #2 on April 1st. Have you subscribed? Issue #1 is FREE to preview [...]

Radical Parenting- March 3, 2010 8PM EST

The Parent family’s whole-life/radical unschooling lifestyle will be featured on Discovery Health’s special entitled Radical Parenting on Wednesday, March 3, 2010 at 8 PM EST.

Here is a link with additional showtimes and a feature to have an e-mail reminder sent to you:

http://health.discovery.com/tv-schedules/special.html?paid=62.9024.128774.0.0

The Mother He Needs

 

My article, “The Mother He Needs” has been published in the Jan/Feb issue of Life Learning Magazine  online. I’m very proud of this story. It is at the very core of what I feel is important in my mothering- intuitively feeling and truly listening to the needs of our individual children rather than societal [...]

HB #15 Learn Peace

Sarah talks about the fallacy of teaching peace and how to shift our energies toward learning peace from our children.

Teach Peace?

How can this be done living in the current stratified system that continues to field for defense and use it for offense?

Be objective: What do you think? Here’s what I think. Appreciate the beliefs and [...]

HB #13- Unparenting- the sequel

Armed with her core principal of love, trust, and authenticity, Sarah gets specific in how to understand and move through situational emotions.

Show notes:

Say you’re sorry

Be the adult

No judgment

Hear what they mean (or something more endearing to you…

Know your child individually

Stay true to your guiding principle

We are here for each other. We will all (children and [...]

HB#9- Why Not School?

 

Two roads diverged in a wood

And I took the one less traveled by

And that has made all the difference. ~Robert Frost

 

Public school statistics: Violence, bullying, drugs from U.S. Department of Education Institute of Education Science

Are homeschoolers part of the problem rather than the solution?

Are homeschoolers sheltering their children from the world?

What about socialization?

What about education? 

Next [...]

HB #6- Unschool Yourself!

What you’ll find in this episode:

Unschooling ourselves- pursuing our life learning alongside our children

Compartmentalizing our passions as “somedays”

Stagnation vs. continued learning

Selfish desires- feeding ourselves to feed our families 

Mentor! Do what you love!

Changing the family mentality

Examples of pursuits

Start small! 

Music selection: Just Older- Bon Jovi

Click here for a direct link to the show.

HB #2- Finding the Real World

What you’ll find in this episode:

Finding the Real World- Coming to Unschooling the Parent Way

Come along as Sarah talks about how the Parent family chose unschooling and scrapped social/educational norms.

Music selection: No Such Thing- John Mayer

Click here for a direct link to the show.